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Ask Jeanne: Can a 20-Year-Old Earn a Homeschool Diploma?

As a parent of a high school homeschooler, I was approached by a neighbor who asked if I knew what the age limit was to begin homeschool. Her 20-year-old son never finished school, sadly. It seemed almost impossible for him to get his GED, having been enrolled on and off since he was 16. Knowing the need for a diploma, she’s considering homeschool, believing with one-on-one teaching, he will obtain his diploma, and his future will much brighter. Unable to find information on the North Carolina Homeschool help website about age restrictions, I’m hoping you can help us. Thanks.   ~ Rebecca

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Can a 20 year old earn a homeschool diploma?

Hi Rebecca,

Homeschooling when a person is past the traditional age of school attendance is not common, but I don’t know of any upper age restrictions.

In most states, including North Carolina, when you graduate from homeschooling, your parents issue you a diploma, and the state does not issue a diploma. Parents decide what the graduation requirements are and when their child has met them. Parents provide a homeschool transcript showing completed studies.

You might more commonly hear studying for a high school diploma at an older-than-typical age referred to as “adult education” rather than homeschooling.

The Legal Context

In many countries and in all states in the United States, homeschooling occurs in a legal context made up of three main parts: compulsory attendance laws, the right to a free public education, and homeschool laws.

Compulsory attendance laws. Compulsory attendance laws govern the ages that children are required to be in school. Various states in the U.S. have set age 16, age 17, or age 18 as the age at which you are allowed to stop school attendance; otherwise, you’re compelled to be there until you reach that age.

Right to a free public education. Likewise, states have different maximum age limits for which they must offer public education at no cost to the individual child or family. Free public education is commonly available up to age 20 or 21, with a few outlier states only making it officially available to age 17, and some others making some form of public ed available all the way to age 22.

Check out the National Center for Education Statistics’ easy-to-read chart of U.S. states age requirements for school attendance and free public education, as well as various special circumstances.

Homeschool laws. Complying with homeschool laws, which also vary state-to-state, may be generally thought of as a way to meet a state’s compulsory attendance law without actually attending a public school.

Within this legal context, some people see “official homeschooling” as taking place during the ages of compulsory attendance while others see it as taking place during the ages a person is entitled to free public school. A 20-year-old would have aged out of the compulsory attendance years, but in many states would still be entitled to free public school. 

The Wider Social Context

Public school norms. The upper age of homeschooling is often thought of in the social context of the age for “usual” school attendance and graduation. Most 18-year-olds in the U.S. are seniors who graduate at that age, but there are a lot of 19-year-olds who are still in school, as well. This is pretty common due to red-shirting, which is intentionally holding children back in school, often to give them time to grow academically (as in a 5-year-old who is not ready for kindergarten until age 6), but also sometimes because parents want to bestow a physical advantage on a child they believe may be an outstanding athlete. It’s also not uncommon for a child who had difficulty in school to be held back a year.

Homeschool norms. As I explained, in many states, homeschoolers don’t have state graduation requirements and can graduate when their parents deem them to be ready. This often means fulfilling the requirements for a transcript that would help a child get into college, trade school, the military, or a vocation. While it is sometimes even younger, a fair number of homeschoolers graduate at 16; more commonly, they are on track to graduate at 18 like their schooled peers. At the same time, many homeschoolers take an extra year for high school, finishing at 19, again, like many peers in school. no one bats an eye.

A 20-year-old would be just beyond that really common age of “still being in school” when he got started homeschooling; if it took him a year or more, he would be older than typical, but still not by that much.  

The Homeschooling Context

Homeschoolers have a lot of flexibility in the age of graduation, with most people graduated by their parents when they are between the ages of 16 and 19.

Homeschoolers Over 18

We’ve already seen that there are both school students and homeschoolers who are over 18 and still working on their high school diplomas. I can find no upward limits on age for homeschooling, although public schools may not typically admit students over certain ages for social reasons. If state law requires public schools to provide education up to age 20 or 21, they may provide alternatives rather than attendance at a typical high school.

Students who are 19 but have grown up attending public school on a certain pace will seem like their classmates despite being older than many of them. Schools may not want to introduce “new” 20-year-olds to a school because most of the other students at the school would be minors (under 18).

However, this isn’t applicable to people learning at home.

In fact, there are online educational service providers (virtual schools, correspondence schools, distance learning schools) whose main business is with traditional-age high school students, but they provide adult education programs leading to a high school diploma as well.

Since many homeschoolers learn at home and receive diplomas without such programs when they are 18 or younger, I can’t see any reason why being 20 would suddenly make a difference.

On the Other Hand

Legitimacy. The challenge is that receiving a homeschool high school diploma at an older age may be questioned more by potential employers or colleges. Many won’t put together the birth date and the graduation date, but some might. There is a high demand for “legitimate” homeschoolers in the workplace and in higher education, but a lot of that is based on the reputation of long-term homeschoolers who grew up in family-based education over many years. Some employers, and even some homeschoolers, worry that some people might try to “look like” homeschoolers. They might think that “catching up” on missed high school credits by homeschooling as an adult is not the same learning experience.

Competency. That said, the important thing is to be able to “signal” to others that you are competent. Through independent homeschooling or by using one of the adult education programs, your friend’s son can receive a high school diploma. He may need to do additional things to “signal” his competence and that his education has prepared him for next steps of living and learning.

Wes Beach, who runs Beach High School, a private school in California, told me he is unaware of any age restrictions applying to homeschooling. Wes states,

My oldest graduate was 57. When I was teaching in a public high school, a 19-year-old asked me if he could attend the high school. I asked the principal, and he said no. It turned out that he was wrong. It’s my impression that sending older people off to adult education is not a legal requirement but just a habit, perhaps based on a fear that older ‘kids’ might be a bad influence. I’ve written transcripts for work students had done over a period of more than four years, and I’ve graduated kids who learned a lot in less than four years. I’ve given credit for academic work that was done in nontraditional ways, e.g., visiting historical sites instead of reading history books. I’ve given credit for work that didn’t fall into traditional categories, e.g., a study of forms of alternative education. I don’t base credits on time spent but on what’s learned, and even more important in my view, the impact of learning on the learner. If someone learns, say, beginning algebra in a month instead of the eight or nine months spent in a traditional high school, I give a year’s credit. As a private school, I’m legally obligated to ‘offer’ a curriculum comparable to the public schools, but if a student hasn’t engaged in study of all parts of such a curriculum, in essence has refused the offer, that’s fine with me. A program of studies that enriches a young person’s life in agreeable ways is what I honor. I teach no classes, but award credit for learning elsewhere, often self-directed. I do occasionally work with an individual student in completing study of a subject.”

There are other private schools that offer high school diplomas to adults (some with more traditional course work), or, if Wes and I are right, a person can independently homeschool his way to a diploma at age 20, without a “program” or private school. The GED is often presented as the only alternative to earning a high school diploma by age 18 or 19, but that’s not the case.

Disruption of educational norms. Of course, this notion shakes up educational possibilities. If you can homeschool at 20 and get a diploma, what about at 21? At 25? At 57? Maybe you can homeschool yourself as an adult and grant yourself a diploma? This both makes no sense and perfect sense, depending on what you think about educational credentials.

The book College Without High School (affiliate link) will open your eyes further about these possibilities. It’s written by Blake Boles, who regularly helps teens and young adults get out there learning, earning, making their way in life without a traditional education.

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Jeanne Faulconer

A popular speaker at homeschooling conferences, business groups, and parents’ groups, Jeanne Potts Faulconer homeschooled her three sons in North Carolina, Mississippi, and Virginia for twenty years. Jeanne is director of Brave Writer's Homeschool Alliance, which provides homeschool coaching, community, and "grad school for homeschool" for parents. She is the contributing editor for TheHomeSchoolMom newsletter and writes the popular Ask Jeanne column, addressing homeschool parents' questions here at TheHomeSchoolMom. She is a former college faculty member, former editor and book reviewer for Home Education Magazine, a long-time editor for VaHomeschoolers Voice, and a news correspondent for WCVE, an NPR-member station. Holding her Master of Arts degree in Communication, Jeanne has conducted portfolio evaluations for Virginia homeschoolers for evidence of progress for many years.

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  1. Tawanna L Turner

    I took my son out of school at the age of seventeen because he had a hard time, he is ADHD and has a hard time adjusting to the high school setting, he wanted to try for his GED, but couldn’t master it; however I homeschooled my daughter I took her out of school at the age of 16, while she was in my homeschool I made my own curriculum, I followed public school guidelines, she took the homeschool state test and her ACT test, she graduated out of my homeschool and I made her transcripts and diploma. Her college accepted her Diploma and transcripts, I was wondering if I could home school my son at the age of 19 or is it to late

  2. Hermite Jean Dhaiti

    Hi Jeanne, I am impressed by your comment and I feel confident to talk to you. I have a 10 year old daughter, I started with homeschooling and placed her in a christian school for me to continue my education and because she never attended a daycare, they made her spend 2 years in preschool. After the 2 years, I placed her in a Charter School where she learns so much negative behavior, it is a headache. Now, I am a graduate with a Master’s in Education with no classroom experience beside the practicum; my husband and I agree to homeschool the child to teach her grades 5 and 6 together in a year before placing her in a High School or keep her until college. I am going to fill out the form with my e-mail, please, help with your feedback.


    • Jeanne Faulconer

      Hi Jean,

      Sometimes combining two grades in one year does work well in homeschooling, but the most important thing is helping your child learn at her own level. Some kids can advance through two years worth of skill and knowledge; other cannot. Many homeschoolers do not use the idea of grade levels at all, or not until the high school years, when they are probably recording credits for a transcript that may be presented to a college.

      The most effective learning is always “what’s next” for a child: improving a little, addressing slightly more advanced concepts and skills, learning more about the world. Meeting a child’s needs in this way is part of what makes homeschooling work. Many people homeschool all their kids using one “grade” curriculum, simply adjusting it a little for different kids in the family, more dependent on ability than age. (Math is often the notable exception to this in some families).

      In most states in the U.S., school administrators do not look at work completed in grades 5/6 in order to decide placement in 9th grade for high school. Talking with your local high school administrator would give you more information about what the high school expects.

      Here are two articles on grade level that may be useful: Homeschooling and Grade Level and Grade Level: When it Matters in Homeschooling.

      Good luck!

  3. Jim Young

    Thank you for your insights on homeschooling adults. I’ve been told it’s legal but not common. This could give hope to.adults who didn’t finish high school but have the skills and experience needed for graduation.

    • Jeanne Faulconer

      You’re welcome, Jim. Thanks for letting us know you appreciated our article. It’s an option worth exploring for adults who didn’t finish high school, so I do hope it can provide encouragement. I’d like to add that many community colleges have essentially open enrollment and can be a good option for furthering education for those who can afford it.


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